The New Meeting Places : Checking Out Isn't Like Checking In
There was a time when weddings, thread ceremonies and housewarming functions were where we met relatives and long-lost friends. Today, after crossing sixty, life seems to have quietly changed the venue. Hospitals have become our new meeting places. Recently, I accompanied my 91-year-old uncle for his eye check-up. As we waited outside the consulting room, I suddenly spotted one of my mother's cousins. It had been years since we had met. We chatted, clicked a photograph and I promptly sent it to the family WhatsApp group. One of them responded, "What a coincidence!" I couldn't resist replying, "After sixty, it is no longer a coincidence. Those are the joints where we catch up with one another." The pun was appreciated, but the thought lingered. Earlier we exchanged invitations to weddings. Now we exchange recommendations for cardiologists, ophthalmologists and MRI centres. The invitation card has simply changed its format. That conversation remind...